I always thought that death comes to those who wait for it. It's something that you have to least expect. You don't usually come running and begging for it to happen to you. That is why I question those who had or have thoughts of committing suicide. I know that we're the ones responsible for whatever actions and decisions that we have to make, but two questions in mind that I have are, "What could possibly be more mind-boggling and disturbing than death itself? Would it answer the questions and solve the problems that they're facing?". I mean, WHY CHEAT LIFE BY ABRUPTLY ENDING IT?
It's just sad to think how those people have lost all hope and have come to that wretched solution. It's actually not a solution, but an added burden to those whom they have left or will leave behind. It's like patching up a hole. It may temporarily be covered up, but it will always have a hole. It'll forever be there. That's different from filling up a hole, that's when you lose something/someone, but you know that there will always be another to fill up that empty void.
We may never and probably will never know the things and thoughts that are running through a suicidal person's mind, that is why having good reasoning is crucial to a person's life. It may either make you or break you, but what's important is that you used your head instead of your heart to atleast try to think things through. And you may never know, but it might actually give you another chance in life.
the person committing suicide might've lost his/her raison d'etre along the way.
ReplyDeleteto know the reason why one would end his/her life then one must also dig up that person's past... the fragments of a person's life is a piece to a puzzle or in this case the answer behind the motive of suicide. people won't end their life if there's still a reason to go on... even the smallest reason to live.
some people who have a problem rooted deep within them might feel that there's really no hope, and that there is no answer to their problem... some people would even feel that no one is there for them, their so called "friends" have come to betray them, no one to depend on...etc
and it's true that suicide is definitely not an answer to the problem... but some problems are hard to solve... for example... when there are 2 people involved... one might want it solved one might not want it solved... the person wanting it to be solved will carry that burden, he/she will sometimes feel void lose the reason to go on and will eventually resort to suicide.
or the person will resort to some sort of defense mechanism that will lead to depression that will lead to their death.
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ugh yeah... that's what all i can say for now XD
ahehehehe :D
this is the reason why SUPPORT SYSTEM is very important. no person can keep all his burdens all by himself. even a person with the sanest mind can have suicidal ideations in times of desperation.
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